GRRRRR, so TJ left to live with this guy and his girlfriend; he's been gone for just over a week. Before he left we clearly explained that our help is over. And would you believe for the last three days he has been texting his dad asking for help. He supposedly needs money for the electric payment or it will be shut off. Then tries to make Terry feel guilty about it. Terry told him to go give plasma, go ask churches, go get a job!! And TJ gets mad. Today he told his dad that they aren't taking plasma and he and his roommates just need help, they really need help.
First, I can't believe he has the audacity to even ask. I must be too proud or something but if I was in that situation, I wouldn't even ask the person/people who spent tons on me for Christmas, paid for my GED that I never took, put a house over my head and food on my table and warm water on my back and new clothes and shoes and need I go on.....And now he asks for more help.....WHY? I just want to scream. And if my husband falls for it again I am going to be mad! So far so good, but TJ isn't texting me about it...just his dad. I dont feel one bit sorry for him because I have tried and he has been hateful and nasty and I have continued to try just to get the same things from him. So, that's all for tonight!
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What a yucky situation. We have a lot of people like that in my Dad's extended family. It's lasted 30 years and not getting any better. They STILL have plenty of money for drugs through the month, but not enough for their bills. And it's always a sad story like, my kids won't have food, please send money. *sigh* Trust me, if you are an enabler, TJ will never change! 30 years from now he'll be calling you for money! Stick to your guns girl, you have our support!!
ReplyDeleteWe'll pray Terry stays strong, TJ wises up, and that you, Michael, and Sawyer are affected as little as possible.
don't let Terry give in to him!!
ReplyDeleteI agree! Tell Terry he CANNOT give in to him AGAIN!!! TOUGH LOVE!!! It's GOTTA be TOUGH LOVE!!! It will help TJ in the long run! Praying for y'all! Love you!
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